That's exactly my standpoint as well. If they do go evil, then I'll move to something else.
But until then, I'm still on board with this really solid bit of kit. They really do have an unbelievably flexible system and has not once ever caused any problems. I have a full family of people and...
I actually suspect they aren't going to do active spying with the actual networking aspects.
I DO fully expect future eero models to come "Alexa enabled" with each unit having a speaker/mic, and of course THAT aspect is just privacy hell. Too many "oh, our bad, it was always listening"...
I have to admit, I'm very interested in the Amplifi HD as well. It looks like a pretty neat solution for many situations, including mine. Largish house with not quite enough range on the ol R7000 to get every corner.
A clean base + AP satellite system is appealing. I suspect I'll be getting this...