Some consumer routers do offer minimal control of the power output to reduce the power. TP-Link routers, in general, do offer such control via the Wireless -> Wireless Settings -> Transmit Power option, but only to the extent of "Low", "Middle", "High". Further fine tuning is not possible without installing third party firmware like OpenWRT, but that may require some technical proficiency and a lot of experiments.
TP-Link access points controlled via the Omada Controller can be configured with a custom Transmit Power up to the regulatory domain power of that region.
Many more enterprise/SOHO APs and routers do directly offer fine-grained WiFi transmit power control, but their learning curves are in general (much) higher, even when the devices themselves can be cheaper than consumer routers, e.g. Mikrotik.
While I am unsure of what exactly you are trying to do, you can achieve lower interference from other APs by making sure your WiFi settings only use the channels 1, 6, or 11 for 2.4 GHz. Even better is to use 5 GHz channels only (disable the 2.4 GHz radio), especially DFS channels if they are available for your country and AP. Check for free channels nearby with a WiFi channel scanner app or program.
If you are trying to hide your AP, your options are much more limited and in general this is not possible, i.e. anyone determined can always find it, often with little effort. However, there are ways to make it overlooked ...