For anyone who discovers this thread:
I've had an RT-AC88U for nearly 2.5 years - almost since they came out. Worked like a champ for years. Well, this year (almost summer time), house temps getting to 25C and more streaming than ever going on, stability issues have crept in, especially when activity logging is enabled (or perhaps the NVRAM is going bad... if that's even where these logs are stored?). I'm not clear for sure what is going on, but seeing >86C on the CPU around the time of major instability was scaring me. Maybe for no good reason. I pulled the unit apart (because I'm 95% sure it isn't under warranty anymore anyway after spending hours trying to even track down warranty information, and even if it is, I can't part with the unit while they decide that the problem won't reproduce because it isn't hot and isn't under load). So far, I replaced the pads with grease. But the issue is that with grease, I'm still not getting good contact because there's about 1mm between the sink and chip cover. The CPU temps are a little lower now (75C, though I can't be sure the conditions are identical) and took all day to climb up. But, that said, the sinks are still not even close to as hot as the CPU. So I'm thinking of trying new 1mm pads next. The provided pads were in ok shape, though clearly not new. The contact also was ok but not great. Not sure why they did it with such small pads, as pads can't cost that much?
If you're curious what the instabilities are - primarily the throughput gets spotty, and the web interface completely stops responding. I've reproduced this on every major build in the past 3 months, even Merlin builds, and even after full reset, so I feel like this is probably the right course of action until I see similar widespread reports. Generally it takes a week or so for the problems to creep in with activity disabled, but with it enabled, usually within a single day.