Massive Issues with Ping Spikes, 2 Different Connections 2 Different Routers

[Jai Haze]

Ok here goes, I have been suffering with some of the largest ping spikes on 2 different wifi networks. I have fiber with mesh enabled (its wired so its basically not mesh) throughout the house. I have to have this many as a lot of things lose connection all the time. However, when on wifi and gaming on an ipad (ethernet is not an option, because i use the usb c for data out) I get terrible lag spikes. They happen every 20 seconds up to 2 minutes. I have tried disabling mu-mimo, beamforming and basically even turning off smart connect and running a special connection (guest just for dedicated connection) and all fail. I would think its the router, but then I try a cable connection on the netgear orbi and same thing. So I am at a loss as to what the problem is. Unless netgear and asus is manufactured by the same company, I cant keep buying different set ups. My ping plotter looks really bad regardless of which router I connect to. I have bound the ipad to a router that is 2 feet away from me so its not that causing it. I get bad ping spikes when I open up a phone or something that tries to connect to that wifi, WHY? I get the congestion but how do i stop it? On the 2nd one it just random spikes out of no where and I have even disabled 2.4ghz and there is only ONE connection. This makes me believe its something in the room right? Nope. If I go to one of the other rooms which has a great signal and great pings, it still gets spikes randomly with other routers.

Please help, again 2 different connections 2 different modems and routers

This is the Fiber Pingplotter Report: https://share.getcloudapp.com/v1uQm8ym
This is the Netgear Orbi Cable Connection Report: https://share.getcloudapp.com/GGuzAw0Q