I had no choice to "tinker" in my case because things got so dire that my network printer stopped working. Initially I thought it was the printer dying, but after reinstalling the drivers a few times I discovered something else on my network wasn't working, so then I turned my attention to the router and that's how all this got started. ASUS lull people into a false sense of security by having the default setiings to "auto". If it can't cut the mustard, then what's the point of it? If it can't make sensible decisions when there are only a few competing Wi-Fi networks around, what chance has it got in more crowded environments. I would have expected something better from a high-end router.
Valid direction, but, again, a casual user would buy a new printer or router... never diving into the settings. Hell, some might even just use a USB cable and call it a day. I promise you they'd never look into the router.
I agree that this is the "right" way to resolve the matter, but that means you simply need to learn more about it and figure it out. It's not ASUS' fault that it doesn't work in your environment. They don't build them for "every" possible case, they just do what they can to cover the majority.
You're right, the auto "should" work better, but it's not that smart - on ANY router. My guess is, if it was left on auto, eventually it may jump off 11 and go elsewhere, resolving the issue. Maybe the algorithm didn't have enough time to figure it out. We don't know, as it's proprietary, unfortunately. It could be made smarter, it could be made better... but it can't cover ALL cases. As long as it covers most of them, no one else will notice. Sorry, but you're in the minority here.
Anyway, all that said, get off 11. Doesn't matter WHY it doesn't work for you... it doesn't today. Go to another, and call it a day. Frankly wifi is a terrible system. It works reasonably well for most... and that's why so many use it. I also use it a lot more than I expected to... I figured I'd stay on wired, but it's fast and good enough, but it's not perfect by any means. Here's an old article that discusses that as well:
https://arstechnica.com/information...hat-a-deep-dive-into-why-wi-fi-kind-of-sucks/
So, in the end, you have an edge case... that's why auto doesn't work great for you. I (and MANY others) have used Auto in the past with no issues. I chose to switch off it, because I live far enough out that I know my neighbors won't bounce much... and I really only have 2 to worry about. Again, it works well enough for most... just because it doesn't work for YOU doesn't mean it's worthless or even "bad". You've heard of the 80/20 rule... well, I'd say that Auto works for >80%. It's too bad you're in the 20% (or less) group.
Also, the Asus is a highER end router, but it's not a HIGH end one. You want that, you need to go commercial. Bring your wallet. And even then, it may not solve your issue. Even commercial setups recommend changing and adjusting channels... that's why big companies have IT groups. If you want to buy a true HIGH end router and an IT department, you may get perfect performance more often. But even there, it won't last forever without adjustments.