First of all sorry for the weeks long delay in my reply... haven't seen the notification until now and recently I don't log on here that often.
1. the ping from the phone times out in those cases, i.e. not all of the pings arrive when I try that
2. yes, the current bandwidth limit that I've set is the optimal one. I even get worse results if I "reserve" too much bandwidth by e.g. capping it at 80% of what my line is capable off - doing this is a common advice when setting up QoS but it's an advice I'd rather not follow, after all my testing. The best results are achieved though capping it *just* *below* what the line is capable of in real-life, which is measured through various speed-tests at different times. By "just below" I mean something like 1mbit/s below.
I have a N66u and use Merlin's 280.59. For me capping at 80% did wonders! Before I was hassling with the bandwidth limiter but the results were mixed.
Bufferbloat went from F to B (or C) but the speed dropped to like 80 Mb/s, sometimes even lower (My ISP connection is: 150/15).
I like to play online games like Battlefield and Fifa so smoothness before speed. I noticed my ping was still jumping too much resulting in lag.
I thought that wasn't worth the trade-off.
So I've decided to give QOS another try after reading this topic and others (I've tried QOS before but I was getting some shirtty results)
Did a speedtest and the results were: 154 Mb/s down and 10 Mb/s up. My actual up is 15 Mb/s but I've noticed the bufferbloat went crazy when it goes past 10 Mb/s (I've read somewhere that the upload is the cause for bufferbloat) With that on my mind I took 80% of 10 Mb/s up and 80% of 154 down resulting in 123 Mb/s down and 8 Mb/s up.
I've set the user-defined QOS rules and priorities accordingly and the results are wowwww!! Ping went from A and B on Dslreports to A+ steady plus my speed went up to 106 Mb/s
Gaming now is like a whole new experience for real. Smooth as butter, low ping and no spikes! I'm very happy now and I'm not touching it anymore
Thank you all for you helpful tips, especially Merlin!! QOS does work..