While I do not have a tri band router using the defaults, mostly, works well for me.
Disable WPS
Use Auto Channel except do not check: "Auto select channel including DFS channels" and leave the 5 GHz to 20, 40, 80, 160 MHz
Do use Dual Band Smart connect
Most of the time my 5 GHz runs at 80 MHz in the lower UNII-1 channels. When an AX client connects the bandwidth increases to 160 MHz if the router is cleared for RADAR. This may seem counter productive but it does work!
Something was mentioned about the 5 GHz bands being crowded. So what. I believe the AX standard was designed for such circumstances.