if your router/nodes are too close together, you will likely create an environment with too much radio power and thus cause more issues for yourself. In the consumer world, more is often not better, even if you have "more" devices using the radio.
In an ideal world, mesh APs should actively adjust their power outputs to manage the number clients attached to them and the amount of work they have to do, just like with mobile/cell towers. (A busy node would reduce its power and clients would then jump onto another less busy node. In reality, I think nodes manage their client load by just blocking access.)
But we know the world isn't ideal and I might be expecting too much of current consumer products. It will be interesting to find out how it goes.
I'm not in a mesh setup, but I do reduce my 2.4GHz radio power 1 notch to be nice to my neighbours. (Small house with lots of others close by) Works in theory, whether it does anything in the real world, idk. I feel better about it though.
GJ
