If you don't already know what this is then it's probably beyond the scope of a forum to teach you.What is "SSH"? Can you tell me how to do this?
Setting the upload limit to something less than 0.1 Mbps won't make any difference to you, unless you're trying to set it to 0 to spite her.
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