Update: Spent a couple of hours last night further exploring this additional delay hit. Trialed three gig-wireless routers: the Asus N56U, Dlink DIR-655 and Netgear WNR-854T.
Hard Reset on all routers and cold reboots of Arris cable modem (TWC 7M/386K service). With a direct connect of my PC to the CM, my ping test results are 16ms. With the new Asus N56U (EasyQoS off and Multicast off and verified h/w NAT enabled, as well as turning Multicast on as another test case) my average ping test results were 26ms! Repeated new setup with the DLink DIR-655 router and got the same 25-26ms ping test results. Both routers show 1ms of jitter.
I then pulled out my older Neatgear 854T w- router and with similar config settings tried that one, and then I get 16ms ping results and 0ms jitter!?! All units configured with built-in firewall enabled with SPI enabled. I know there are dozens of different config options with all these routers, but I attempted to keep them all as close as possible.
So, with these results, I'm at a loss to understand where the extra 10ms delay is originating from in this new Asus router (and DLink)?? It was too late to start everything over and play with the Firewall and SPI options, but still, the Netgear router had those options enabled and still had no packet delay overhead.... Thoughts anyone?