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If I saw the 1 Gbit/s WiFi you are seeing then that would be great. Which AP/Router were you using for that test (your Network Utility screen grab) ?
Disabled all VLANs on the Cisco, in fact deleted all completely, so all clear there.
AP is hardwired to the Cisco 8 port with Ether running as a test to the Internet port of the AC3100 as well as throwing the uplink into port 4 as well. Same issue regardless of port.
I also opened up the 5Ghz on the AC88u (normally only running 2.4 as mentioned in my diag) to test to see if the issue could be correlated to AP vs router mode (AC3100 is in AP Mode, AC88u is in Wireless Router Mode). Still same latency and same link speed
So unless there is an issue with the way in which these Asus routers are handling WiFi to WiFi traffic.......then would lead me to think the same thing as you, loop issue or something related to the Mac. Would of course feel happier if the Link Speed in Network Utility showed the correct speed as at least then could rule out client completely although as we both said, with Airport and Wireshark confirming what each other saw, that should point to a misreported speed rather than actual impact (hopefully).
Some further data points here:
Pinging From Network Tools Within AC3100 GUI
In the AC3100, using GUI Network Tools and pinging Mac Mini 1 connected to it via WiFi
10 packets transmitted, 10 packets received, 0% packet loss
round-trip min/avg/max = 43.173/211.015/505.621 ms
In the AC3100, using GUI Network Tools and pinging Mac Mini 2 connected to it via WiFi
10 packets transmitted, 10 packets received, 0% packet loss
round-trip min/avg/max = 43.564/160.940/278.065 ms
In the AC3100, using GUI Network Tools and pinging google.com
10 packets transmitted, 10 packets received, 0% packet loss
round-trip min/avg/max = 10.073/14.926/35.739 ms
In the AC3100, using GUI Network Tools and pinging AC88u (hard wired together through the diag I shared earlier)
10 packets transmitted, 10 packets received, 0% packet loss
round-trip min/avg/max = 0.237/0.269/0.393 ms