I'm hesitant to chime in here, but it seems to me that the MOCA adapter that goes to your set top box may not be working correctly. The MOCA adapters are talking, yet the set top box on the coax output of the MOCA adapter isn't getting enough signal. Perhaps that particular MOCA adapter just isn't feeding the TV signal through properly on the coax path.
I don't know offhand what you can do to test this, other than trying the MOCA adapter that's currently at the cable modem at your set top box, just to see if it acts differently relative to feeding the TV signal through to the set top box. Of course, you won't have the ethernet connection at that point, but this might tell you if you have a bad MOCA adapter.
Anyways, good luck with this one, my MOCA installation was basically plug-and-play. Sorry that you're having problems.