Lightning nearby will come into your house. See my large wave analogy above. It will come in through every conductor. Even semi-moist dust on a wire jacket. So to ride this wave you want everything to a common ground stake so it rides up and down the voltage potential in unison. Which is why every service into your house should be tied to a common ground. Which works better if every service enters at the same point of your house.
As to the 3' ground stake, it's been a while since I actually put one in (40 years) but I think most codes require 8' to 10' or more. You want to get well below the frost line down to where the dirt stays moist 99.999% of the time. And no, I have no idea what they do in Vegas.
I had a client who didn't see the point about 15 years ago to upgrade the grounding in the building. After all his key system phones had never had any issues. After the 3rd time we blew out $4000 worth of phone and computer gear he got serious. We put in a new ground stake for the power and ran nice copper from that to each location where we had racks and where the phones and cable came in. No issues since and that was about 6 or 7 years ago.
We also found out that the ground for the phones up to that point was to a water supply line that went under the concrete at the front of the building and out under the sidewalk. But the line was disconnected inside the building. And outside there were no meters nearby. Owner said oh, yeah, they redid the water 20 years ago when the dug up the street and reworked the sidewalks. So this ground likely went down about 2' then out a foot or two and was cut off.