To be fair to ASUS, there are a lot of things that us consumers miss.
Firstly it is worth remembering that in Europe, many of us have much thicker walls rendering wireless backhaul problematic at best. Physics can’t overcome this without breaching regulatory signal level maximums, especially in the 5ghz area. I ended up running Ethernet around my joists to solve the issue as I was sick of signal drops. Secondly, 160mhz channels for backhaul is hard, especially since in most regions we are restricted to setting it to the first channel to take advantage of it. In most cases people should really opt to just set it to 80mhz if they want stability. Add in DFS related issues and sadly the tech will always over promise and underdeliver no matter what. It won’t matter whether you have ASUS or any other manufacturer.
The only thing the manufactures really need to focus on is better error handling for signal related issues and tools to help identify issues and present these meaningfully to the consumer. We should not as consumer need to know which channel to set our nodes to, and better built in country specific help would go a long way to better setting customer expectations.
As many on this forum have said, it’s important to separate your bands out. Most IoT devices only work on the 2.4 band and often won’t work with any of the more advanced functions switched on. Also keep it on 20mhz only. There are countless threads on devices like LIFX where people talk about their disconnecting IoT devices not realising you really need to keep your 2.4 band as basic as possible. Since keeping my 2.4 band as vanilla as it gets I never have devices disconnecting on me. This leaves me to turn on 802.11ax on the 5ghz bands with all the bells and whistles enabled. Also try to use wired backhaul wherever possible, especially if you have thick walls. Our house is 220 years old and wireless backhaul was simply set up to fail in these conditions.
Finally don’t forget to try the full hard reset option if you have issues with certain firmwares. Personally I’m finding this latest version pretty stable again so I can’t complain. This is in complete contrast to the previous version which was never stable.